Impulse Control Games for Kids to Play with the Family Dog

Teaching your dog impulse control doesn’t just make life easier—it keeps everyone safe, especially when kids are involved. By turning training into fun, structured games, kids can bond with the family dog while reinforcing good manners like waiting, calming down, and listening around distractions.

Here are some kid-friendly games that build impulse control in dogs (and help kids feel like “dog trainers” too).

Why Impulse Control Matters

Impulse control is a dog’s ability to pause and think before reacting. It prevents common problems like:

• Jumping on people

• Snatching food from hands

• Bolting out doors

• Overexcitement during play

Teaching these skills through games helps kids and dogs interact safely while strengthening their relationship.

Game 1: “Red Light, Green Light” (Sit & Wait Edition)

How to Play:

1. Have the child hold the leash or stand nearby while you guide at first.

2. Say “Green Light!” and let the dog walk or move forward.

3. Say “Red Light!” and ask for a sit or wait.

4. Reward calm behavior before resuming.

This helps dogs learn to stop moving and think, even when excited. Kids love calling the cues!

Game 2: “Treat Catch Patience Challenge”

How to Play:

1. Child holds a treat in a closed hand.

2. Dog only gets the treat when they back off, sit, or wait politely.

3. Once calm, the treat is tossed gently for the dog to catch.

This teaches dogs not to snatch food from the child's hands and allows the child to reward them for self-control.

Game 3: “Doorway Wait Race”

How to Play:

1. At a closed door (like going outside), the child cues the dog to “Sit” or “Wait.”

2. The door opens slowly; if the dog moves forward, the door closes.

3. When the dog remains seated, the child happily releases them with “Okay!” to go through.

Kids love being the “gatekeeper,” and dogs learn not to bolt out doors.

Safety Tips for Parents

• Always supervise games between kids and dogs.

• Use treats your dog can handle gently (no grabbing).

• Choose games that match your dog’s temperament and energy level—shy or nervous dogs may need more guidance.

• Keep sessions short and fun; end before the dog gets bored or frustrated.

Impulse control games aren’t just training—they’re a way for kids and dogs to build trust and teamwork. With a few fun activities, your dog will learn to slow down, listen, and become a calmer companion, while your kids learn patience and confidence as mini dog handlers.